March 17, 2013

• Taboo

  Sex.

  While I’d start the entry off saying, how important it is in a relationship, when I stop and truly think about it, maybe it isn’t.

  I would argue that it is not the best thing if it is introduced too early (you can determine what that time frame is)in a relationship and that there are merits to waiting for marriage. But at the same time, it may be a bit unrealistic when we are constantly bombarded with sex and sexual images every day (altho that may not be too strong an arguement).

  
  I think sex is a very open thing when you’re younger, while it becomes a more private topic when you mature. Maybe its the people that surrounds you that affects this though, for my group is rather close-lipped. When you were younger, you’d talk about it, think about it and crave it.. but it seems like when you’re older, it kind of becomes a taboo subject. Maybe its because sex IS supposed to be something private between the two partners involved and not with anyone else. The thing is, it has become so private that it seems like people don’t have sex anymore.. married ones.. or atleast ones in longer relationships.

  It makes me wonder, guys that are tight-lipped about such topics.. ‘joke’ that they don’t have sex with their wives anymore.. but then frequent strip clubs a lot.. whats up with that?

  I really wonder what it is in longer relationships that causes people to stop. While this is not a comment on my own relationship or others.. its more just a curiosity. I believe, though, that in terms of a guy (atelast), if it was something hot and heavy (& frequent) in the beginning, if it tapers off, that MAY BE natural.. but if it stops altogether.. there might be something wrong.

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