December 23, 2012

  • Too much stimulation

    Yes, there can actually be a thing called 'too much stimulation.'

    I should really blog more so that my fans who stalk my site every day and reads my Restless entry over and over, has something else to entertain themselves with.

    There is a problem with being an introvert and that is the feeling of needing to be obligated to go to events that you don't want to go to. Just like tonight when I went to my best friend's place for a guys night; people who are technically my close 'old' friends but who have totally different lifestyles and opposite interests. I enjoy spending time with my 'friends' but with those people, we only do one/two things: drink/smoke. For me, I have better, more enjoyable things I can do. When I was walking from the parking lot, through the park, I could hear a very loud party that must have had their windows open. Nope, it was apparently all my 'friends' who were drunk out of their minds, having been drinking for 3 hours straight earlier. So not only are these guys all incoherent, flatulent (sh!t, I hope girls don't pass this much gas)and more obnoxious than normal, they are constantly shouting at the top of their lungs.


    While the dice (drinking) game we played was moderately fun, we then started to watch a tv show, called The League which is about the lives of guys in their mid 30s who participate in a fantasy football league (which they're all interested in b/c they're all in one themselves). The whole time, they were yelling at each other, complaining about their players that were doing crap, or opponents who's players were doing much better, making fun of overweight people (in which I noticed only me and my best friend were in the 'healthy' zone, while 5+ people were dangerously overweight). And these are people who want me to come to New Years with? I really regret not having spent some time organizing and making plans; I really enjoyed last year, curled up on the sofa with my gf, sharing a Drumstick each while watching some tv show. Granted we didn't have ball-slapping sex (there we go; that should get tons of views), but it was still a great time. It kinda makes me feel bad I haven't proposed yet.. but thats another story for another time.

    I don't understand really hate how drinking is so important to these people to have a great time. I can't imagine how much booze one of my friend's drank before I came over, but he finished off a whole bottle of Bacardi (STRAIGHT) by HIMSELF, in one sitting. How do people not have liver problems drinking this much? How does drinking equal having a fun time? It seems to allow them to blow off steam from their personal lives and be more 'free' and do stuff they normally have to keep in. That must be it; their lives are frustrating and not that great, that drinking and acting like animals, makes them feel better.

    What I do understand is why guys need to go to strip clubs; b/c they aren't getting it frequently enought. Thats why married guys may not want to go to a strip club; because they're getting good loving at home. I can imagine, while having sex with a stranger can be wild, sex with someone that knows your body like the back of your hand, can probably be much more satisfying. If a guy is married but wants to go a strip club for dances and such, its b/c he's not getting it at home and probably isn't that attracted to his partner anymore (so watch out ladies; its of course vice versa as well). So even though my 'friends' (yeah, I keep putting quotation marks there) were heavily intoxicated to the point that either the bouncer is not going to allow them in, or they'll be sleeping while in perverts row (thats the front row by the way). My coworker S was telling me how he sometimes envies "people like me" (in a relationship) b/c although friends with benefits are great, it can lead to attachment and crazy psycho stalkers that apparently can cause alot of trouble for you.


    On a different (?) note, it IS interesting what these guys think are attractive. They kept hollering at the girl Jenny from the League, thinking she's so hot and how in one of the episodes you see her making out with Shiva from True Blood. Now Shiva, she's hot.. but Jenny? Maybe her tomboyish, competitive nature is what is attractive to them, but looks-wise? Meh. Not my cup o tea. And its funny, b/c although they think her character may be hot, they would never end up with one... I really dont' know what kind of girl would ever settle for these guys. What would that kind of girl, see in these oaf-ish kind of guys. These guys wouldn't tell them what they're thinking, they'd be slobs, go out to strip clubs frequently, they wouldn't take care of their kids or anything. Love does some fcuked up sh!t, i'll tell you that, b/c women are blind to so many character flaws and issues and have this thing about how getting married is so important.

    Leading to another point; whats with women (in particular) and their blinders they have when they 'fall in love.' How many times do you hear about this woman that is so hopelessly in love with her man, when its clear as day that he's a sleezebag? If you've dated for only 2 months and for your birthday, he gives you panties (and thats it) as your gift, you actually accept that? Really? Or after a fight that resulted in you two taking a break, he tells you the only reason why he said he wanted to be in a serious relationship with you was b/c otherwise you wouldn't have given him a chance... there is only one real thing you can take from that. That if you're still with him, you're out of your mind. Now I come off a little harsh, but guys do the exact same thing, including myself. *almost goes into detail about it* All I'll say is that 'love' makes you do really stupid things and I guess you deserve getting burned if you let it happen.